Erik Bates | November 25, 2010
This guy!

Matthew Preston | November 25, 2010
Congratulations Erik! When is the big day? What did you do for the proposal?

Steve West | November 25, 2010
Congrats!!! Lucky girl or lucky guy? I'd say both.

Jon Berry | November 25, 2010
Congratulations! That's awesome!

Jackie Mason | November 25, 2010
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Samir Mehta | November 25, 2010
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Dave Stoppenhagen | November 26, 2010
Congrats! That is exciting.

Scott Hardie | November 27, 2010
Erik, let me join the chorus of congratulations. Two thumbs are indeed exciting. Plus there's the engagement thing. Sweet!

Being on Facebook with you all at the same time is kind of weird. I knew of Erik's engagement a few hours before he mentioned it here, and of Samir's a few weeks ago. But I didn't offer congratulations there, just a "like," which seems like the modern-day equivalent, a notion that would make Miss Manners spin in her grave if she wasn't still alive.

Saying something here, even belatedly, seems more meaningful. I wish you both every happiness, and in the future I hope to spend time with you both (and your fiancées, and your thumbs).

Erik Bates | November 29, 2010
Thanks all. We're pretty excited.

I popped the question while we were back home in Texas for Thanksgiving (well, back to my home... she's from Illinois). My home town is a small Texas town so there aren't a great deal of romantic places to pop the question. Fortunately, the courthouse lawn had some pretty lights in a Christmas scene, so I managed to convince her to go for a drive around town, and then "take some fun pictures in front of the Christmas scene at the court house." We took a few pictures, and then I spouted off the corniest line of my life:

"Is it ok that we didn't go see Harry Potter tonight? (we had talked about going earlier)." She says, "Yeah, that's fine." I say, "Well, why don't we make this night magical anyway?"

Boom. Down on one knee. Ring in hand. Question popped.

Cheesy, I know. But it was great.

Currently, the date is set for December 30 of next year.

Samir Mehta | November 29, 2010
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Erik Bates | November 29, 2010
And to you, Samir!

Jackie Mason | November 30, 2010
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Samir Mehta | December 1, 2010
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Dave Stoppenhagen | December 1, 2010
Well done Samir. Congrats

Erik Bates | December 2, 2010
Damn, Samir. You win. Game over. I bow to the master. I wish I was clever enough to come up with something like that. Very, very nice.

And congrats!

Chris Lemler | December 2, 2010
Congrats Samir

Scott Hardie | December 3, 2010
Great stories, both. :-)

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